IEPs

I admit, this stuff has me bamboozled. And for some reason, I do not "get" our district person. She seems nice enough, it's just that we talk, and I say "okay" and then I go home and say to myself "huh? what just happened there?". This is driving me crazy. I am an educated, intelligent person. I was the Regional Manager of a World-Wide Environmental Consulting Agency for cryin' out loud! I haven't stressed too much about the whole process because I feel familiar with the district and know parents who have been through IEPs and lived. So why am I having issues? Because I don't want him to go? (Well duh, of course I don't.) I'm going to write an e-mail to this lady tomorrow and try to get a few questions cleared up. Wish me luck!